Friday, April 5, 2019

July 9, 2018

“The starting point for all happiness is shifting the focus away from yourself. If all you think about is yourself, you’re going to be a pretty miserable person. If you truly want to be happy in life, you have to care about the needs of those around you. 
Paul gives Timothy as an example of this in Philippians 2:20-21: “There is no one like Timothy for having a real interest in you; everyone else seems to be worrying about his own plans and not those of Jesus Christ” (LB). 
If you want to be one of those rare, unselfish people, you’ve got to change your focus. You have to shift your focus away from yourself to other people. That’s not something that comes naturally, so it’s something you have to learn to do. 
I have to admit that it saddens me how many times I have missed the needs of people around me that I love because I wasn’t paying attention. I wasn’t taking an interest in them. I hadn’t shifted the focus from me to the others in the room. Because I wasn’t looking out for their needs, I missed their needs. And that grieves me a lot.
Instead of grieving missed opportunities, be intentional about looking away from yourself and to the needs of others, where you’ll find happiness in serving God through serving others.” - Rick Warren 
“Don’t look out only for your own interests, but take an interest in others, too.” Philippians‬ ‭2:4‬ ‭NLT‬‬

July 2, 2018


“Never worry alone. When anxiety grabs my mind, it is self-perpetuating. Worrisome thoughts reproduce faster than rabbits, so one of the most powerful ways to stop the spiral of worry is simply to disclose my worry to a friend... The simple act of reassurance from another human being [becomes] a tool of the Spirit to cast out fear -- because peace and fear are both contagious." - John Ortberg
I love this quote because it talks about the importance of friends to encourage and help us through life’s ups and downs. Here are just some of the people that God has put in our lives in this season - and I am thankful for them!!

A Higher Perspective - June 29, 2018


I was just driving down the street and listening to a sermon; it was so profound I had to stop and write down my thoughts. 
The speaker was talking about flying on a commercial plane. He said, “What would happen if, every 15 minutes, you called the flight attendant and asked them to check and make sure the pilots are awake?” After the first few times, they would ignore you because you were basically insulting the pilots. But yet we do that with God. 
We commit something to Him but we go back time and time again, or we worry about the situation; we want to make sure He hasn’t gone to sleep, or forgotten, or we wonder why He’s not doing things in our timing or the way we would like. 
It was such a clear illustration of something that is foundational to me. I haven’t been able to articulate it this clearly - but this is the “secret sauce” that can change our lives, no matter the situation. It goes along so well with the concept that God is not surprised at our situation. He is aware of what we are going through and He has plans to use our lives for good and for His Glory! That is what makes it easier to cope with whatever comes our way. 
For me - it is my eyes. They are calming down (less flashes and floaters!) but from what I understand, the issues with my eyes will not go away. The injections slow the process down, but there is no guarantee or even really a plan that my vision will improve. And it’s certainly not the most horrible thing that can happen to someone!! My life is so good, I am thankful for the wonderful people in our lives, and I couldn’t have a better medical team! But it is very difficult to recognize people - so if I have a “deer in the headlights” look when I see you, it’s not you; it is me trying to process what I see! ðŸ™‚
This is The Message translation - and I think it clearly states that God has a plan and can use whatever we are dealing with, for good. He loves us and wants what is best for us. We can trust Him. 
“Because of the extravagance of those revelations, and so I wouldn’t get a big head, I was given the gift of a handicap to keep me in constant touch with my limitations. Satan’s angel did his best to get me down; what he in fact did was push me to my knees. No danger then of walking around high and mighty! At first I didn’t think of it as a gift, and begged God to remove it. Three times I did that, and then he told me, My grace is enough; it’s all you need. My strength comes into its own in your weakness. Once I heard that, I was glad to let it happen. I quit focusing on the handicap and began appreciating the gift. It was a case of Christ’s strength moving in on my weakness. Now I take limitations in stride, and with good cheer, these limitations that cut me down to size—abuse, accidents, opposition, bad breaks. I just let Christ take over! And so the weaker I get, the stronger I become.”
‭‭2 Corinthians‬ ‭12:7-10‬ ‭MSG‬‬

June 28, 2018


“Your pain often reveals God’s purpose for you. God never wastes a hurt! If you’ve gone through a hurt, he wants you to help other people going through that same hurt. He wants you to share it. God can use the problems in your life to give you a ministry to others. In fact, the very thing you’re most ashamed of in your life and resent the most could become your greatest ministry in helping other people.” Rick Warren 
“He comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort others. When they are troubled, we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us.” 2 Corinthians‬ ‭1:4‬ ‭NLT‬‬

June 23, 2018


I was blind, now I'm seeing in color
I was dead, now I'm living forever
I had failed, but you were my redeemer
I've been blessed beyond all measure
I was lost, now I'm found by the father
I've been changed from a ruin to treasure
I've been given a hope and a future
I've been blessed beyond all measure
I am counting every blessing, counting every blessing
Letting go and trusting when I cannot see
I am counting every blessing, counting every blessing
Surely every season you are good to me
Oh, you are good to me
Oh, you are good to me
You were there in the valley of shadows
You were there in the depth of my sorrows
You're my strength, my hope for tomorrow
I've been blessed beyond all measure
I am counting every blessing, counting every blessing
Letting go and trusting when I cannot see
I am counting every blessing, counting every blessing
Surely every season you are good to me
Oh, you are good to me
Oh, you are good to me
Surely your goodness pursues me
Surely your heart is still for me
I will remember your mercies all my days
Through every storm and gale
I am counting every blessing, counting every blessing
Letting go and trusting when I cannot see
I am counting every blessing, counting every blessing
Surely every season you are good to me

June 22, 2018


“He’s the one who comforts us in all our trouble so that we can comfort other people who are in every kind of trouble. We offer the same comfort that we ourselves received from God.” 2 Corinthians‬ ‭1:4‬ ‭CEB‬‬
We seem to have it all backwards when it comes to being strong and handling things. We think that trouble or weakness is something to be avoided. But when troubles come, we gain an understanding of the character of God, and a peace to trust in Him, that we would never learn except by going through the trial. 
We can trust in His plan!

June 18, 2018

Kathy’s brain: We have a Target gift card. Let’s go look around the store, walking down every aisle to see what we can get! 
Tony’s brain: We have a Target gift card. I wish Kathy hadn’t come along. We must hurry into the store and buy multiples of one item and get out of the store ASAP!!
He won. ðŸ˜‚😂
Then I suggested we run by Hobby Lobby (for one item). You could feel him cringe. I told him that I could go to Hobby Lobby later, that it wasn’t an emergency. ðŸ˜‚